Promises

Promises are meant to be broken, aren't they? People make promises because they are unconfident of themselves. People want promises because they are afraid. I owe my apologies to my girl. I can still remember how many promises I have given to her and how many promises I have broken too.

To her disappointment, she once asked me to stop giving her empty promises. I failed to keep my promises and I lost my trustworthiness anymore. In fact, I am pretty agreeable with what she says, "Never make promises that you can never keep." Therefore, is love all about promises? I doubt. What is the meaning of promises? Is it something to make the relationship last? Is it powerful enough to keep two hearts together? When promises have lost their meaning between two lovers, then it's time for them to ponder - what is lack in the relationship? In my opinion, "trust" is the keyword.

If you trust someone, you wouldn't ask for promises. If you believe you can keep a promise, prove it instead of making promises. I have learnt through my lessons, and now it's time for me to learn how to gain my trustworthiness again. I always bear this in mind - Promises don't come easy.